.But what Astrid doesn't understand yet is a reality that both Ortega as well as O'Hara-- that has 2 sons-- can easily confirm: The reality that your partnership along with your parents improvements and evolves as you each age, and also ideally for the better. "Your globe centers around [your kids] when they are actually infants [and] it is actually a great deal work yet lovely," O'Hara states. "Eventually, you truly miss out on that, due to the fact that then you can't obtain them to accomplish just about anything you desire all of them to perform, since they start building their very own minds, their very own point of views." And also inevitably, you find yourself in the area O'Hara, whose boys remain in their 20s as well as 30s, finds herself now, able to gain from her youngsters. "They are actually just such trendy young individuals," she says. "I am actually certainly not their buddy, yet I like having chats with them and also learning more about exactly how they deal with lifestyle.".